This post was actually shared to us by a freind on our facebook page, and we think all students needs to read this.
So many times we try too hard to impress people, and the outcome is really that bad.. Though i stand to
be corrected, but in my opinion, i find some things very okay when one is in company with the opposite
sex... Want know them?
1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date with the opposite sex
Now guys and ladies have this mentality that its the guy that is very much supposed to foot all the bills on
a date... And then after all the nice time you two spend together, the guy feels its his right to sleep with
the babe.. That mentality shouldn't be so.. I believe that two matured people who are on a date should
share in footing the bills if need arises. its so not shameful.. It doesn't reduce your ego..
2. Its not a crime to ask the opposite sex for assistance especially financial assistance.
Yeah, sometimes we get so broke in life, even to buy 100 Naira airtime is a problem, and u have this bestie
who is of the opposite sex, i really don't think its a crime to ask him/her for assistance.. Most guys be like,
men i cant ask any girl for money, and as d big olodo you are, that same babe will suck u dry and even
your last card, u will give to her.. But to quit the ego when you are in need is a problem... Its not shameful
tho.. Buh do not make the mistake of asking all and sundry for assistance, just ur very close friends..
3. Its not shameful to assist the opposite sex in doing chores.
Now this is meant for those who r very very close to each other... You have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and
lets say you two live together, boyfriend is sick or girlfriend is sick and you as the partner is very much hale
and hearty, its so not shameful to assist him or her in washing their clothes, especially his/her undies..
Yeah know right..
4: its very very OK to for a guy and a girl to hold hands when walking in public...
Some people are so so timid or uptight in their character, even when with the opposite sex, they still feel
that awkwardness.. There are quite a good number of PDAs that aren't shameful to practice in public like
holding hands while walking, holding each other by the waist, etc.. To me these aint that shameful.. Unless
you are embarrassed about him or her in public.. Sometimes, people judge a lot, their mindset are so so
myopic that they see these acts like immoral.. Please if you are of that category, quit the habit and mind
your business.
5. Its so not shameful for a guy to assist his female friend or boss to carry their handbags should they
feel incapacitated to do so at that moment
Now many guys find it difficult to help their female friend with her handbag. She may want to get
something or maybe holding too many things with her hands, its so not shameful to tell her, hey leme help
u with one of them, maybe your handbag.. It just wouldn't reduce our ego, would it?
Lets know your own point of view via the comment box!!!
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