Betrayal is a very hurtful feeling that
can change the dynamics of any relationship or partnership. This is
because the moment one party gets hurt by the infidelity of the other;
trust can no longer be guaranteed. A relationship without trust is like a
relationship without life. So, how do you fix a broken relationship
after cheating regardless of what happened? Can you still get him back?
The answer to the questions above is an emphatic yes.
You can get your ex back regardless of
what happened in the past by first taking the path of forgiveness. It
isn’t clear who cheated from the topic of the article but, irrespective
of who committed the act of betrayal, forgiveness is an essential key to
reconciliation. You must be ready to forgive yourself (if you cheated)
and be ready to forgive your ex (if he cheated). Forgiveness is the
first aspect to rebuilding what was broken on the altar of betrayal
because if you can forgive the wrong that was done to you and overlook
what occurred, then you can say that you are on the path to fully
gaining confidence with your ex again.
As much as it will hurt you going back
to thinking on the betrayal and contemplating your next move, you must
see past all the events that may have transpired, look inwards to
examine what possibilities this new relationship holds and take the bold
step to letting go of the pain through the essence of forgiveness.
Forgiveness will help you begin with a fresh mentality and new insight
into what is to come. It will also eradicate everything that may have
been toxic in the relationship prior to the break up.
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After taking the bold step to forgiving
your ex, you will need to let go of everything that may hinder a full
reconciliation. This includes, feelings of anger, regret, remorse,
doubt, fear etc. just let go of elements that will not improve your
wellbeing in any positive way. You are the one going through the
situation so you know more than anyone what you are going through or
what you are feeling inside. Now is the time to let go of all of these
feelings with a view to building a better relationship devoid of
negativities and distracting elements. Let your ex see how much you have
grown as a woman and hoe mature you have become towards tolerating
issues. Do not let the bad experiences you might have had in the past
stop you from accepting a new light that may fix what was broken between
you two.
As you forgive and let go of negative
feelings, you should also take your ex along with you in this process.
Do not embark on this journey of forgiveness alone because the two of
you are the parties involved in the dispute thus, the two of you should
be able to fix it together as a team. Doing it all alone might not be in
your best interest because when you do this, you exclude the very
important person you are doing this all for (your ex). So get him
involved by making him see the importance of getting back together with
you. As you bring him along, you should avoid the temptation of fixing
the blame on him because this whole attempt of yours to fix the broken
relationship isn’t meant to accuse anyone but to rebuild on what was
lost by correcting the errors of the past. As you put these steps to
work, you can be sure of getting positive results that will help you fix
your relationship regardless of what happened and get your ex back.
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