A depressed wife has cried out for help
and advice after she caught her husband sniffing her niece's pants as
she does not know what next step to take.
Dear Readers,
I caught my husband of five years
sniffing the panties of my 15 years niece. I don't know if I should
confront him or let the issue lie. I also think he bought my niece a new
blackberry phone because the day I insisted on making my niece tell me
where she got the phone, he became too overprotective of her and we
almost fought over the issue.
My niece recently lost her father,
making my sister a widow who let go of her children to stay with her
relatives, that is how my niece came to stay with me. On the 26th of
November 2015, I saw him at the backyard next to the heap of clothes my
niece brought out to wash, he picked up a pant, my niece's pant and
sniffed it, I almost screamed where I was. Also I keep noticing the look
they exchange, very flirtatious.
Lastly my niece is acting like she is
his wife, she dishes his food even before the children's food, doesn't
knock before opening the door of our bedroom, and the most disturbing
is, she asks my husband where he is going when he wants to go out as if
she is his wife, my husband is 37 and this girl is 15.
I suggested to my husband that we send
her off to a boarding school, he rejected the idea and even got angry
with me saying it will affect the girl psychologically, as if I want to
dump her in a boarding house and run away. I want to confront my husband
but I have no evidence, and for my niece I respect my eldest sister so
much that I don't know what to do, I feel like an outsider in my own
home.
P.S. My husband is a banker and also a pastor at our church.
I sincerely need your advice.
Thank you.
Sad and depressed housewife in Ikeja
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