Some
people just don't know what to say or do when in the bedroom and in the
heat of passion. When you say the wrong thing, it could kill the moment
and even make your partner lose interest. Stay away from these bedroom
blunders.
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can tell that you’ve made a mistake when that cricket screeching in the
background is the only noise that’s heard after you tell her something
you think is particularly sexy. When she doesn’t know how to respond to
your dirty talk or when she takes offense to what you say, do not
respond aggressively or reciprocally. Don’t get upset. Continue to
soothe and state that you are just talking dirty for fun. However, it is
best to switch your use of profanity to descriptions of how she’s
making you feel, what she feels like to you, etc. You can still use
imagery artistically to create that erotic environment where she feels a
little wild and free to talk back.
4. Crossing her boundaries
If
you cross a line, such as trying anal without asking and waiting for
her consent, be prepared for her refusal and maybe her hasty exit. Trust
is the biggest issue. She is vulnerable during s*x and trusts you to
value her boundaries. If you find that you have made some blatant
transgression, don’t make a huge deal out of it or move your hands or
position to a completely new spot. Just stop the offending action in a
smooth transition to another more pleasurable activity for her.
5. Finishing too soon
If
it’s been a while, don’t let her know. She’ll know enough when you
secretly make her “one-minute man” list. Though it would be perfect s*x
to make her experience shattering multiple orgasms that have her
screaming in pleasure, it may have felt too damn good for you to hold
back. Coming quickly isn’t something you want to do all the time, but
when you do, don’t apologize. Instead, play on her vanity as an
exceptionally sexy woman — one that made you lose all control. Say
something like, "Wow, you are too hot, I just couldn't hold it in any
longer." This way, she’ll take your premature ejaculation as a
compliment whereas, if you apologize, she’ll see it as a flaw. To make
up for your quickie performance, give her the best oral of her life
until you regain your upright stature.
6. Taking too long
Here’s
the opposite of the above problem. Some men, like some women, take a
little too long to orgasm. Women may feel numb — and even sore — after a
while of continual pounding, and men may feel like a robot. A great
solution would be to discontinue the action under an acceptable guise
such as a bathroom break. When you return, it will be easier for both
parties to move on from there. If she feels guilty about you not getting
yours, let her know she can get you back at any opportunity.
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