Hello Admin, thanks for this opportunity.... I just recovered from a
heartbreak of 7 years relationship. My sin was that I introduced my
female cousin while searching for a job to my now ex to work in his firm
and they started cheating behind me after 2years of working with him
and when I find out I asked him but he denied it,
I didn't leave
because he promised me marriage and we were working towards that. But
things went so bad that I was just being careful since it was sort of
sensitive issue, this my cousins mum happen to be the only sibling of my
mum and they love each so much, I wouldn't want to be the cause of any
quarrel to them but in return the whole world got crashed on my head as
my auntie supported her daughter so much that she even started avoiding
my mum so that she wouldn't know when the guy comes to pay her
dowery.... This whole marriage saga of my cousin and the guy has been on
since Dec 2015 just because I reported to the guy's mum which she was
very angry with her son and disappointed in him....
Since then the
marriage has been on hold because the guy's mum didn't support him and
she even promised me that never will her son marry my cousin but to my
greatest shock last Oct this guy rented a new apartment (duplex) and
move in with this girl, I heard of it I didn't talk neither did I ask
him because in the midst of the whole shit we still talk, so I was
surprised when the mum called me last Saturday to come to her house and I
went only for me to see my cousin, the guy, the mum and one of their
auntie, and
the old woman started by she wish to inform the both of us
(I and my cousin) that the son is not gonna marry any of us and that her
judgment is final and I wanted to remind her that the both parties are
now in the same roof but she shunned me...... Then I told the guy that I
will leave but I hand everything to God since he denied not promising
me marriage in the midst of discussion there .....I left.
I was mad that day not because of the meeting or the mum changing in her words but I was mad because I've already gotten over the trauma, why did they remind me of it? Meanwhile I asked the guy to give me money to put in my business since the marriage didn't work between the both of us after keep me for 7 years and scared other men away he agreed initially but after that Saturday meeting he said he won't give me the money anymore since I had the gut to create scene in their house, honestly I created scene, I fought, I drew crowd before leaving that day( don't judge me please) right now I still have one of his cheuqes signed and stamped.... Did I tell u I used to handle his cheque book, ATM cards, all his business, in fact I was his manager before the whole shit happened, I later saw a piece of his cheque in my abandoned handbag....
Now since he said he won't give me the money as agreed I want to go cash the money myself.....please I need an advise this guy really caused me pain, I even got job in Dubai and traveled to work there after 3 months he insisted I should come back that he couldn't stay without me. What should I do?
I was mad that day not because of the meeting or the mum changing in her words but I was mad because I've already gotten over the trauma, why did they remind me of it? Meanwhile I asked the guy to give me money to put in my business since the marriage didn't work between the both of us after keep me for 7 years and scared other men away he agreed initially but after that Saturday meeting he said he won't give me the money anymore since I had the gut to create scene in their house, honestly I created scene, I fought, I drew crowd before leaving that day( don't judge me please) right now I still have one of his cheuqes signed and stamped.... Did I tell u I used to handle his cheque book, ATM cards, all his business, in fact I was his manager before the whole shit happened, I later saw a piece of his cheque in my abandoned handbag....
Now since he said he won't give me the money as agreed I want to go cash the money myself.....please I need an advise this guy really caused me pain, I even got job in Dubai and traveled to work there after 3 months he insisted I should come back that he couldn't stay without me. What should I do?
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